Tag: goals

  • Give yourself a life detox!

    Give yourself a life detox!

    Give yourself a life detox!

    Follow through on your healthy living goals

    A healthy lifestyle is an accumulation of small actions that add up to vitality and longevity. Sometimes we know what changes we need to make in our lives but have a hard time getting around to doing them. And sometimes we know we need changes but aren’t clear about what to do. These tips from a professional psychotherapist will help you clarify goals, stop procrastinating, and start thriving.

    Step 1: Specify your goals

    “You can’t heal what you don’t acknowledge,” says Elenora Molnar, master therapeutic counselor.

    Step 2: Reflect on the goal

    It’s helpful to understand why you developed the unhealthy habit in the first place, so you can replace it with a healthier habit that fulfills the same need, says Molnar. If your mornings are hectic because you look at your phone for an hour before getting out of bed, it may be because you want to delay the start of the day without having to think or problem-solve.

    “Make a plan to start off your day without looking at your phone for one hour,” suggests Molnar. Instead of looking at social media, replace that time with a quick yoga video or walk around the neighbourhood. This gets your body active, while also letting your mind rest and gear up for the day.

    You may want to try a digital detox. Set some firm boundaries around screen time, consider deleting certain apps from your phone, or take a break from social media for a designated amount of time.

    Replace a bad habit with a good one

    “Start overriding your bad habits with new routines,” suggests Molnar. For example, if you want to start jogging, overwrite being sedentary in the evening by taking an easy jog at the same time you would usually be sitting down.

    If you’re trying to stop eating junk food at night, instead of turning on the TV, work on a puzzle, read a book, or do any activity that you don’t associate with snacking. Start with small steps that slowly become your new habits.

    Be flexible

    It’s great to have ambitious goals, but if you’re unrealistic at the beginning, you’ll have trouble meeting them. This can cause you to give up completely. “It’s great to have goals, but give yourself permission to say that goals can change. Always have a plan, but know you can change your plan,” says Molnar.

    Step 3: Find a support group

    Experts say that one of the surest ways to keep with your physical or mental health goals is to find a support group of likeminded people looking to accomplish similar goals.

    Explains Molnar, “When you’re in a group where everyone is focused on the same thing, it’s really powerful because you can be compassionately witnessed by those people. I’m thinking of therapy, but it doesn’t necessarily have to be therapy. It could be a running group or a gardening group.”

    By Stephanie MacDonald

    Article Courtesy of Alive Magazine

  • Set yourself up for success

    Set yourself up for success

    Set yourself up for success

    How to make better New Year’s resolutions

    Is resolution-setting a thing of the past? No way. Don’t give up on setting New Year’s resolutions. But this year, do it the right way!

    Push goals

    “Push goals are the ones you have to push yourself to do; for example, going to the gym after work,” says Kira Lynne, a life coach and registered professional counselor. You do it one day, or a few, but consistency may drop. That is true especially when you start from being entirely sedentary.

    Pull goals

    “Pull goals, on the other hand, pertain to activities you enjoy doing (dance class, yoga in the park, walks with a friend), which makes it easier to stick to your plan, because you love the activity and look forward to it,” says Lynne.

    But before you get started

    Do you drink enough water? Do you get enough quality sleep? Is your food intake adequate for your needs, no matter what life stage you’re in?

    Certain nutritional deficiencies or lifestyle habits can affect our energy levels, which undermine our progress and get in the way of the most carefully set resolutions.

    If it feels like a lot, there’s good news: good habits “stick” to one another. Better sleep enables healthier eating habits, improved energy levels, and a happier mood too.

    Failure comes with nuances

    Inspirational stories can fire us up. We get a routine going, but then life happens, and we don’t show up for a whole week, or two months. Cue shame and feelings of inadequacy.

    But there’s another way to look at it. “It is okay to fall off the wagon, and it’s not a sign of not putting enough effort or not being good enough,” says Lynne. “It’s important to know that when we want to make a change, it’s not [always] smooth sailing.” The opportunity to restart is always there!

    Small steps for long-term goals

    Break up a goal into doable steps. You were hoping for a half-hour jog, but you only have 10 minutes. Do it anyway, mark it as a win, and keep your big running dream alive. A challenging resolution can have a better chance of succeeding than settling for an easy one, because it pushes us to find ways to accomplish it.

    Keeping track of things

    Having an accountability partner is a great way to keep ourselves going, but, says Lynne, “rather than having that someone berate you for not keeping up, think of them as someone to have fun with.”

    If you’re better on your own, go right ahead, but have a reward system in place. “Whenever you fit activity into your day, make a checkmark on the calendar using different colors for different activities, or different colored beads that would go in jars,” suggests Lynne.

    When you reach a certain number of checkmarks or beads, reward yourself with something you like. It makes things fun while also creating positive brain conditioning.

    By Daniela Ginta, MSc, NNCP

    Article Courtesy of Alive Magazine

  • Happy days

    Happy days

    Happy days

    Find joy and build strength, starting now

    A recent Instagram video by Sheila Nollert, the powerhouse behind the account @grandma_moves, begins with her drinking tea in a rocking chair, covered with a blanket and reading a book. “Society says senior years look like this,” reads the words flashing across the screen. “Nope!”

    Down goes the teacup and up Nollert gets, casting off her blanket to reveal sportswear and running shoes. With the back of her heel, she tips over the rocking chair and strides into the forest to begin a vigorous workout.

    This short clip embodies the ethos that drives Nollert to share content through @grandma_moves. It’s a powerful message. How often do we put off living for today—doing activities that bring us joy or help us cultivate strength—because we feel there will be a better time to do so in the future, or that our best days are behind us?

    But learning to live for the here and now offers a wealth of mental and physical benefits, and it’s easier to do than you may think.

    Stop waiting

    Ageist messages, says Nollert, work to keep older folks down, making them feel as if they have no business in engaging in activities traditionally associated with a younger crowd. By accepting these narratives, we limit ourselves and miss out on opportunities for personal growth, strengthening our bodies, and connecting with others.

    Set long-term goals

    Setting and working toward long-term goals is one way to hold yourself accountable and ensure you don’t miss out on opportunities for joy and growth.

    If a particular goal feels inaccessible, says Nollert, try breaking it down into smaller steps. For example, maybe you’ve always wanted to run a half-marathon but now find running a challenge. Can you start strength training to make running a possibility again? If not, can you walk the half-marathon, or try out a 10 km route?

    Seize the day

    Along with long-term goal planning, we can work to enjoy daily moments to their fullest. Nollert lives by a simple motto to help make the most of the mundane: “Every day is a vacation day.” This motto can apply to anyone, whether you’re working full time or already enjoying retirement. What it means is to take the time to do something, no matter how small, that makes each day feel special.

    “Make a date with the sunrise,” suggests Nollert. “Even if it’s overcast, take the opportunity to look out to the horizon and be in that moment. [If] it’s the wintertime and it’s hard to get up, light a candle while you’re having breakfast.”

    Even an activity like walking the dog can bring joy, says Nollert, if we allow it to. “Instead of thinking of it as a chore, try to take it all in—the colors of the trees, the breeze, the sounds of the birds. Feel the earth under your feet. Enjoy.”

    By Isabela Vera

    Article Courtesy of Alive Magazine